BDSM and humiliation

I have been in the BDSM world for more than 30 years. It is a fascinating world. I have been to themed parties, wild parties, and specialized venues. I have spoken with Masters and Mistresses about all kinds of techniques.

BDSM is based on 3 pillars: Sane, Safe, and Consensual. The practices are based on those 3 principles, and any Master who suggests skipping one or more of them is not a good Master.

For example, something extreme is castration, the dream of many, but it must be done by a surgeon and with safety guarantees; any other way is not BDSM.

I have received many offers from Masters and have also spent time in specialized venues. A good Master is recognized right away: he is patient and shapes you to his liking. A bad Master is in a big hurry, and the so-called CASH ones are just scammers.

I have been fisted many times. It is a practice that, when done well, is pleasurable, and it has been done to me very well. It is not about putting a hand, fist, or arm into your ass, but knowing how to put it in. Lubricate it well and proceed slowly. The best thing is to use latex gloves; it makes us feel so slutty that we end up begging for cock.

Slaves do not want to be destroyed; we want to be modified to please our Master. If you act very slutty, your Master ends up fucking you, but while acting slutty is a BDSM role, being a slut is not. Prostitution is something else.

Yesterday I acted so slutty before my Master that taking it up the ass was inevitable. It is not about directing the Master’s desire, but knowing what the Master expects from you.

Many slaves dream of being humiliated in public, of having photos or videos of us posted on the internet, but do not be fooled: all of that is consensual with the Master. Our humiliation is consented to by both parties, or it causes pleasure to neither of us.

That is why I offer my photos to anyone who wants to save them or publish them; it is my public humiliation, but it is also my desire to be humiliated.