Pillion

Pillion: Saddle, rear seat of a motorcycle and, by contamination, the passenger themselves. What in Spain we would say "the one who rides pillion". It is also used as a mocking reference to the buttocks.

Today I was at the cinema watching Pillion (2025), a movie starring the extremely muscular Alexander Skarsgard (the Viking vampire from True Blood) and Harry Melling (the fat cousin from Harry Potter, who has grown up and lost weight). It tells a story of domination/submission and impossible "love" between a dominant biker (Ray) and his obedient submissive (Collin). And all of this from the point of view of the submissive, trapped between veneration for his master and an incipient rebellion against the scarce displays of tenderness received. I won't say more to avoid spoilers, but I highly recommend the movie in question. It has humor, a lot of sex, and a bit of drama. And it's better if you watch it in a movie theater, the audience contributes to creating a complicit atmosphere.

As a potential submissive, and saving the distances, I identify quite a bit with poor Collin. Throughout my life (I'm already old) I've had the opportunity to fall in love with dominant men and I've always appreciated the human and affectionate treatment in those relationships. Outside of casual sex (that's okay for the thrill), domination without tenderness seems to me like pure theater, something forced and false. Asymmetric relationship, fine. Defined roles, fine. But that doesn't exclude complicity, that mix of friendship, devotion, mutual protection.

In short, your admirer, slave, friend, servant... is at your entire disposal.