My Shared Universe

I've been living and exploring a 24/7 BDSM relationship for some time, and as the days go by, I've learned that maintaining such a bond is not a continuous fantasy, but a constant balance between the emotional, the mundane, and the erotic.

Not everything is as simple as the images or texts that are seen out there. There are moments when the role blends with routine, and that's where the real connection is put to the test. You can't always be dominant after a family dinner, nor remain submissive after a tender hug. But when there is communication and trust, the middle ground that sustains everything is found.

Many idealize BDSM, but in practice, not everything is pleasure or excitement. There is fatigue, frustration, emotional limits, and situations that make the role waver. What's important is to talk about it, to understand that it's not about being "perfect" in the role, but about being honest with what one feels and with the person with whom they share the surrender or control.

I've also seen how some people seek a "custom-made Master or submissive", as if it were a tailored character. But real BDSM is not about that. You can't be giving or receiving orders 24 hours a day. It's about finding the rhythm that fits with real life, building the dynamic with authenticity.

And something I always repeat: BDSM is based on respect and consent. No one has the right to demand submission or respect just because they hold a title. Each relationship is unique, and the power that is given or received must have a solid, agreed-upon, and safe foundation.

Unfortunately, there are also those who take advantage of the BDSM world to gain benefits or impose authority without sense. I believe in control from agreement, in surrender from mutual desire, not from abuse.

In the sexual aspect, there are also many misconceptions: being docile doesn't make you submissive, nor does dominating a moment make you a Master.

The true role is born from within, from trust and mutual knowledge.

I don't pretend to have absolute truth, I just share what I've learned over time: that real BDSM is a journey of self-discovery, communication, and respect.

The rest is empty fantasy.

Hugs to everyone and good luck in the search