THE DUTIES OF A SUBMISSIVE (FOR ME…)

The role of a submissive entails a series of obligations and responsibilities that are just as important as rights. Just as a submissive can choose their Master based on the qualities or conditions they see in that Master, the Master also has the right to demand certain behaviors and minimum conduct so that the D/s relationship can proceed in harmony.

Below, as part of the agreement that a submissive accepts when choosing their Master, I will list a small number of duties that a submissive should always keep in mind and never stray from.

* Respect

At all times, a submissive must respect their Master. In BDSM, just like in any other type of relationship between partners, the most important thing is to establish a foundation, and the main cornerstone is respect, from which trust stems— the most important link between Master and submissive. Just as a Master always respects and values the submission, dedication, and obedience of their submissive, a submissive must remember to respect their Master, who puts a lot at stake: self-control, care, effort, and the responsibility to ensure that the submissive is comfortable during the play and enjoys it, always keeping the submissive’s safety in mind and respecting the established limits.

* Sincerity

The next most important thing a submissive should always consider is transparency with their Master. They must always share their fears, concerns, and doubts, as well as their desires and fantasies. Transparency and sincerity will facilitate the Master’s ability to fully and effectively satisfy the submissive's needs during play and training. If the submissive, out of fear of not pleasing their Master, keeps their concerns or fears to themselves, or simply reaches the limit of their capabilities without communicating with their Master, the Master may make erroneous decisions during play that could lead to damage, injuries, or the end of the D/s relationship.

* Humility

To be the best submissive, one must focus on how to please and serve their Master. When a submissive centers themselves on arrogance and feeds their ego by thinking they are the best, that they do everything right, while neglecting their Master’s orders, they end in failure. True success lies in collaboration; if either side believes that everything is due to themselves, everything will be lost in D/s. A submissive should only seek to please their Master in all their desires and commands.

* Clear Ideas

A submissive must be open to new proposals, willing to listen to details, expectations, and new motivations their Master suggests. By refusing or closing themselves off, they lose the opportunity to grow, learn, enjoy, and discover new sensations, all while respecting the foundations of trust and respect and the established limits. A submissive may dislike or refuse certain practices, but they should never complete...