The elements of male chastity

This text was published by the user of Tumblr chastitychronicles2017, and has been translated jointly by chastekome and korzarco, or what is the same, kometruphas and kajir (tuamo).

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"A free cock corrupts the mind, a caged cock exposes the soul".

"If you fantasize about being in chastity, you probably should be caged."

Discovery

The initial discovery and interest in chastity can be compared to a revelation. It opens the eyes and practically always triggers a myriad of unfulfilled sexual desires and emotions, all linked to the image of a penis locked in a cage. For some, being in chastity for the first time is shocking, revealing, and some even consider it spiritual. Everything related to chastity has an underlying content of vulnerability, and with each step, the man becomes more aware of it. Authenticity is beautiful. There's nothing stronger than vulnerability. Sharing your weakness is making yourself vulnerable; making yourself vulnerable is showing your strength. It doesn't matter about the aspect of "normal" people living "ordinary" lives; everyone has a story to tell. And it may happen that, like you, everyone else is also misfits. The willingness to be yourself in the end. Being who you truly are is taking a weight off your shoulders, accepting a challenge. One of the great tragedies of life is losing the feeling of what you are and accepting the version of you that everyone else expects. Male chastity is a polyhedral virtue, not a habit. It is respect for sexuality up to a point where sex is reserved exclusively for those who deserve it. Chastity surrenders to the power and beauty of sexuality, which should never be misused. Chastity is a sophisticated form of sexual honesty because it opens the way to virginity and the intoxicating ritual of orgasm renunciation.

"Fantasy is not an escape from reality. It's just another way of understanding it."

Fantasizing

Normally, one's mind begins to feel curiosity, so imagination takes control of desires and intense feelings of experimenting with chastity. The man masturbates as much as possible with chastity pornography, wishing it was his cock that was caged. The mind can work in both directions in chastity, towards sexuality or towards abstinence: being available or not available for sex. Look at it as a spectrum whose extremes are unconsciousness in final abstinence or hyper-consciousness in the final sexual act. The pendular sliding between these two situations is more frequent than its absence. It's ironic, but we're talking about giving meaning to all sexual impulses linked to the compulsive idea that the object that most turns you on is the same one you need to control that excitement. Don't forget that no one else...