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what a submissive needs

Written by: TopDomMad

08-06-2017
3001 words
Rules

Structure & Routine

Consequences

Honesty and Trust

Proper Nutrition & Rest

Humiliation & Degradation

Chores & Responsibilities

Goals and Special Projects

Hard Use and Abuse

Assurances (A Second Chance)

Thanks again to fistfuckgaygr for providing valuable insight into a few things a Dominant needs from His submissive creatures. After reading fistfuckgaygr’s blog posting, this faggot thought it might be a good idea to compose a similar posting from a faggot’s perspective – this faggot’s perspective anyway. And while BDSM activities are inherently grounded in a deep, dark sexual nature, this faggot also realizes there is much more to being a Man’s slave than simply serving Him sexually. It is attempting to remember that important construct as it scribes this post. Although parts of this writing do resemble sexual content, this posting was composed in a concerted effort and with the express intention to increase its quality of service to the Master.

Rules –

As a noun, RULES are “a set of explicit or understood regulations or principles governing conduct”. As a verb, the Master RULES His faggot when He “exercises ultimate power or authority” over that property. Rules should be clear and understood by both parties. Rules not only define the expected actions of the sub, but they also serve to define the parameters of the relationship between a Dominant and His slave. It is an important dynamic for the faggot to be given clear and distinct rules which it is then expected to abide by and those rules should always lend themselves to making the Master’s life better.

Examples of rules may include:

Following proper protocol when addressing a Superior

Knowing when it may or may not speak freely

Responding immediately to orders and commands

Being home and completely available to Him (aside from work responsibilities)

Having to ask permission for anything/everything beyond its normal pre-defined routine

Without rules, faggots run amuck and gain ego, losing focus on what’s important to both parties. And that is having the Master in charge – in total Control of the faggot. This quite simply, is what they both want. So, the Dominant should always feel comfortable and secure in making Rules for the faggot to follow. And likewise, the faggot should accept each new rule with a sense of gratitude for a Man who is willing to provide firm control and structure to its life. The more rules imposed upon the faggot, the better opportunity it has to improve the life of its Master.

Structure and Routine –

As rules provide the framework for expected behaviors, structure is what gives those rules meaning. Structure is the organizational foundation on which a rich and dynamic relationship is built. And without structure, a faggot is likely to wander aimlessly t...
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